Why You Still Can’t Speak Chinese — And How to Fix It
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Why Am I Still Not Speaking Chinese? A Real Answer for Struggling Learners
After years of teaching Chinese to international students, there are two sentences I keep hearing again and again:
“I’ve been learning Chinese for months, but I still can’t speak it! I sound like a robot — nothing I say feels natural.”
And also:
“Chinese characters are so hard... I keep forgetting them!”
Honestly? I completely understand the frustration. Chinese isn't an easy language—especially if your native language uses the Latin alphabet.
Tones, characters, sentence order, stroke order... every part can feel like a wall.
But the good news is: once we identify the real problems learners face and apply the right methods, Chinese becomes much more approachable—and even enjoyable.
Let’s break it down:
3 Common Struggles Chinese Learners Face
1. Can read but can’t speak—or too afraid to speak
Many learners memorize vocabulary but freeze in real conversations.
They’re unsure which words sound natural, how to respond, and whether their pronunciation is “off.” The result? They stay silent.
2. Characters are hard to remember
Some rely on rote memorization to learn characters. But without structure, visuals, or real-life context, they forget everything quickly.
Characters like 吃 (eat), 喝 (drink), 住 (live), and 走 (walk) look similar and are easy to mix up or write wrong.
3. Lessons feel irrelevant to real life
A lot of beginner courses are still stuck on textbook basics:
"你好，我叫小明，我是学生 (Hello, my name is Xiao Ming, I’m a student)."
But learners who want to travel, work, or make friends using Chinese need way more practical, real-world language than that.
How We Do It Differently at The Ivy Mandarin
🔹 1-on-1 Chinese Lessons: Speak confidently & naturally
Our private lessons are never one-size-fits-all.
Before starting, we talk to every student to understand their goals: travel, business, HSK, dating—yes, that too 🤭—and create a custom plan.
During class, we focus on 3 key things:
✅ Confidence — Breaking the ice with real-life dialogues
✅ Useful speaking — High-frequency phrases in your context
✅ Natural language — Live pronunciation feedback + everyday expressions
(e.g., “有点贵 (a bit expensive)” is more polite than “很贵 (very expensive)”)
After just a few sessions, students often say things like:
“Now I actually feel like I’m learning real Chinese.”
“I really enjoyed the class, it made learning Chinese feel fun and a lot less scary haha.”
🧧 Pre-recorded Chinese Character Course: Finally make sense of 汉字
We designed our character course to help learners stop memorizing blindly—and actually understand what they’re writing.
Each short video (under 10 minutes) includes:
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✅ Standard pronunciation
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✅ Stroke order animations
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✅ Word-building (learn 1 character, get 3–5 useful words)
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✅ Daily-use example sentences
For example, learning the character “开 (kāi)”:
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Words: 开门 (open the door), 开车 (drive), 开会 (have a meeting)
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Sentences:
我去开门。 (I’ll go open the door.)
他开车去上班。 (He drives to work.)
你几点开会？ (What time is your meeting?)
The format is casual, repeatable, and easy to absorb—perfect for learners who feel overwhelmed by characters.
We're Not Just "Selling Chinese Lessons" — We're Solving a Real Problem
At the end of the day, this isn't about selling classes.
It’s about helping learners finally feel confident using Chinese in real life.
Whether you’re a complete beginner or have already studied Chinese but feel stuck, we’re here to help you build real fluency—step by step.
📩 Ready to speak Chinese for real?
Send us a message. Let’s talk about how we can help you reach your goals.
👉 Contact Us to Get Started:
- Personalized course plan
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Honest advice on your Chinese learning journey
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